People will let you know.
It’s inevitable that people will judge you. You may think whatever you want of yourself. I choose to think of myself as a winner. Maybe I’m not a winner yet but I have that mindset. I will succeed. I do not care what people think about me but I do pay attention. That’s how I know I’m making progress.
When you win, some people if not most people will hate you; they will envy you; some people will love you; but most if not all will respect you. There will be people who compliment you, and people who will talk shit; but everyone will agree, YOU ARE A WINNER!
Just ask Floyd Mayweather. There are many, MANY people that want to see him lose. He has many haters. He also has many followers. People that will praise him no matter what. But ask any of the haters or people that don’t like him and they will still agree, he’s a winner. Everybody knows it, he knows it, the whole world knows it.
So the point is, it really doesn’t matter what you think of yourself or who you think you are. What will let you know success is when the people around you see a winner. The way you look at yourself, it doesn’t matter. It’s not who you are. Not to anyone else but you.
So see yourself as a winner. And make others see you as a winner.
There’s only one way to do that.